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Sunday, February 07, 2010

Ambiguity

When you KNOW the goal, it is easy to close the gap between you and it.

Suddenly husband and I find ourselves in a position where we've just agree'd on several major steps forward and the means by which we plan to get there. Amazing how the last few months have been so confusing yet out of it clarity has emerged.

We've always had a loose dream for a particular property but hadn't been able to solve to satisfactions those parts that dangled ~ which I guess just meant the timing wasn't right yet. And now suddenly, it is happening. Moving forward with such ease that it is taking on a life of its own.

I find people love to give advice on how to make things work. But life has a special timing for each of us. And really, if things can't proceed with ease, if we constantly find ourselves forcing a flow, such effort is contradictory to the definition of flow. There is nothing wrong with sitting a while with ambiguity ~ it blurs the limits of your mind, expands the possibilities.


2 comments:

Lyn said...

I absolutely agree ... ambiguity is not as indecisive as it seems. I reckon it to letting things percolate ... when it's ready, you'll be able to smell it! Sounds like things are getting exciting for you and your husband. You seem happy.

Bob said...

Wise words Smarts!